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Transformation Through Kink

A weekend intensive for people who want to explore kink without guessing, performing or pushing past their own safety 


The Sanctuary of East Harlem
February 27 - March 1st,  2026 7PM - 7PM

You’re curious. Thoughtful. Intentional.

But when it comes to kink, you may still feel like you’re stuck on the outside looking in.

Not because you’re incapable.

Because no one ever showed you how to learn safely, slowly and with real support.

Maybe you’ve asked yourself:

  • Am I actually ready for this or just curious?

  • What if I freeze, mess up or don’t know what to do? 

  • What if everyone else already knows the rules?

  • What if I want to learn but I don’t want to perform?

If any of that sounds familiar, you’re not behind; and you’re certainly not alone!

You’re exactly who this weekend was designed for.

Transformation Through Kink is not a class where you sit, watch and hope it clicks later.

And it’s not a high-pressure space where confidence is assumed.

This is a two-day in-person learning container built around one core principle:

People Before Kink. Always.

Here, skill building happens inside safety, consent and real-time support

Over the weekend, you’ll learn through:

  • Guided, hands-on exercises where you’re never left to guess

  • Live demonstrations that are explained, slowed down and contextualized

  • Structured discussions that help you understand not just how things work, but why

  • A capped group size so you’re seen supported and not lost in the room

There are no lectures, No Power Points. No expectations to “already know”

Just practice, feedback and care

WHAT YOU’LL ACTUALLY WALK AWAY WITH

You’ll receive beginner-accessible, trauma aware instruction in:

  • Rope

  • Impact Play

  • Mummification

  • Body Mapping


All taught with an emphasis on communication, consent, pacing and nervous system awareness.

THE REAL TRANSFORMATION

By the end of the weekend, most participants don’t just feel more skilled.

They feel:

  • Oriented instead of overwhelmed

  • Grounded instead of performative

  • Clear about what they want to explore next and what can wait

  • Connected to a community where learning doesn’t require bravado


As one past participant shared: “This weekend changed everything for me, I went from nervous to confident in 48 hours”


Final Details

Scene Building Fundamentals: Your Weekend Intensive
Hosted by the Kink Collective
The Sanctuary of East Harlem, NYC
Friday, February 27 – Sunday, March 1st | 7PM–7PM

Investment: $499(payment plans available) | Members save $50 – ask us how!

Spots are intentionally limited to protect the learning environment.

If you’re looking for a place where curiosity is welcomed, boundaries are respected and growth is supported in real time, this is the weekend you’ve been waiting for.

Click here to reserve your spot.                                                                                                                                                                                                    Your future self doesn’t need to be braver.                                                                                                                                                                                     It just needs the right container.


FAQ

What makes Transformation Through Kink different from other kink workshops or intensives?

At Transformation Through Kink:

  • You learn by doing — no lectures, no PowerPoints, no sitting for hours. Just hands-on, real-time learning.

  • You’re seen and supported — attendance is capped to ensure personal attention and equal opportunity for all.

  • You get the real-world insights most classes skip — through roundtable discussions, Q&A sessions, and personalized feedback.

  • You’re held in a safe, encouraging space — where curiosity is welcomed and vulnerability is respected.

What if I’m coming from out of town?
We have in-house lodging options available upon request. Ask us for more details when you sign up.