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                                 successful relationships.

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               Welcome to The Kink Collective


We help accomplished people rebuild their relationship with desire,

identity, and power, so they can create the relationships they truly want.


Our roots are in kink, where nothing is assumed and everything is said and named out loud, which is also the heart of this work.


It starts with knowing yourself, then learning to ask for what you want, and then choosing how power moves between you and the people you let close.


With People Before Kink as our philosophy: who you are comes before what you doWe get to know each other as people first, holding that standard for ourselves before anyone else.


Enter the work.
Start here. 

The Conscious Kinky Podcast
New episodes uploaded every Wednesday

Listen to life partners and co-founders, Cat & Joshua, go where most conversations end. The Conscious Kinky Podcast is the easiest place to begin, it's free, and available on both Spotify and YouTube. 

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Conscious Conversations
​​Tuesday nights, 7PM EST

Every Tuesday night we gather virtually in a curated space to have the conversations that most people never get to have out loud. With rotating topics, this is a brave space to say what you actually want, need, & desire.

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The Conscious Kinky Partner 
Online Masterclass 

Wednesday July 22nd 7PM EST
The Conscious Kinky Partner 101 is a beginner-friendlyvirtual masterclass designed for people who feel drawn to the deeper psychology of kink, connection, and power dynamics but want a safe and thoughtful place to start.
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Do you feel safe enough to be honest? 

_________



You help other people build the relationships they want, but your own are harder to maintain.



Do you help everyone else communicate, then go quiet about your own needs? 


Do you hold back your voice to avoid conflict?


Do you struggle to voice and hold your own boundaries?


Do you crave direction but don't know where to find it?



If any of that landed, YOU'RE exactly who we're built for.