Every Friday Night at The Sanctuary of East Harlem: 8PM - 1AM
Welcome to The Kink Collective’s East Harlem Play Party, an exclusive BDSM event designed specifically for those who seek a genuine home for authentic connection, community and play. Featuring five uniquely equipped and furnished stations, our home at The Sanctuary of East Harlem, offers members and their guests a sultry and intimate atmosphere to engage and explore in conscious and intentional play.
Event Timeline
8PM/DOORS OPEN: Doors open and the first hour is dedicated to facilitated conversation. Parties are always more fun when you can connect with the people around you, and we provide a format that is exciting and seamless!
9PM/OPENING CIRCLE: Our opening circle is the perfect time to check-in with yourself and your fellow attendees. We ask that each person introduces themselves and their journey, as well as set an intention for the evening. This gives us the opportunity to share and hold space for one another and is an excellent time to review what you might be interested in experiencing for the evening!
9:30PM - 1AM/PLAY:The play space opens to five different stations, each equipped with kinky furniture prepped for explorative, creative and erotic play.
FAQ
But, what if I’m not a member? Can I still attend the party?
Yes and no; All of our programming is designed for our members and their chosen guests, we do offer a limited amount of non-member tickets. But once they’re gone, they’re gone.
You are also welcome to attempt to catch a non-member ticket for the following week, purchase one of our memberships or sign up for Resonance, a community centered 101 tasting version of this party, hosted every fourth Saturday of the month, here at The Sanctuary of East Harlem.
Why is this event exclusive to members and their chosen guests?
The truth? Most if not all of our programming is designed specifically for our members: kinky people who crave authentic and genuine interpersonal connections, and here’s why…
At any one of our events, programs or socials, you can expect to be met by a community of diverse yet like-minded people, all of whom are committed to their own personal development goals through a variety of conscious kink, BDSM and Leather practices.
Through membership, not only are we able to ensure your physical safety, it also certifies that each person will be met with communal support, maintaining the integrity of the space and maximizing the potential growth for each individual.
So, how do we vet potential members?
As a prerequisite for becoming a member, we require active participation in our free online communication skill-building class, Connection: Simplified, created for supporting you and our community in building deep, long lasting relationships. For the next free offering of this seminal program, click here.
While we offer a limited number of non-member tickets, you will always be welcomed at the door by a friendly face. If we can’t offer you entry for the current event, we will invite you to ask any questions you might have. We are always happy to assist and point you in the best direction for your own journey.
What else do I need to know before arriving?
Dress code is “comfortable and confident”. While we are not a dungeon, per se, we suggest that you wear whatever makes you feel like your best self.
We have a communal snack table, please bring a snack to share and a beverage of your choice. Water, tea, coffee and lollipops are always available!
Our party comes equipped with a resident photographer. If you would like to have your play-scene photographed, Victor will be around to negotiate. NOTE: Victor will never take photos of anyone without pre-scene negotiation and enthusiastic consent.
While this party is centered around play, there is no expectation for anyone to engage in any form of play. In fact, we highly welcome and encourage newcomers to socialize, watch and ask questions.
Event Details
Location: The Sanctuary of East Harlem - 113 E 125th St. 10035 NY, NY.
Time: Every Friday, 8PM - 1AM
To enter, push the outside/street door firmly. The space is located at the top of the steps. Unfortunately, The Sanctuary of East Harlem is not wheelchair accessible, attendees must be able to walk-up a flight of twenty steps.
Price of Admission: $20 for members,
For in-person payments, we accept: cash, Venmo, CashApp, Paypal and Zelle
For Advance tickets, click here.
We look forward to meeting and interacting with you!
