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The Kink Collective

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The Kink Collective

What is The Kink Collective?

The Kink-Collective started as a leather family, founded on the philosophy of People Before Kink. We believe that who we are must come before what we are. That our connections as people must be put in front of any other way we identify. We practice getting to know each other as people and caring for one another on a deep level before we engage with each other in play. We believe that achieving and maintaining these kinds of relationships require effort and dedication. As a group we are committed to this work personally and with each other.

In the time since its inception, the Kink-Collective has built a tribe, a larger collective of people committed to personal growth through deep introspection, holding space for ourselves and each other, and allowing all of us to self-actualize by speaking our truth.

Friday Night Play Party

Kink Collective is a place where curiosity is met with respect, and every journey is built on honesty and understanding. Find the support and community to explore meaningful connections and profound self-discovery.

Join us each week for the Kink Collective’s Friday Night Play Party

Join us each week for the Kink Collective’s Friday Night Play Party, a welcoming space where you can connect with others and express yourself freely. Every Friday from 8 PM to 1 AM, we gather for an evening filled with fantastic play, making new connections, and explorating the realm of BDSM as a sexy and satisfying experience.

What to Expect

Dedicated Play Spaces: With a host of available options, play spaces are specifically tailored to support your mode of play. The variety of furniture and implements allow you to explore your desires and deepen your practice, creating an energy that is unique to our play parties and serve to heighten your experience.


Supportive Community: Join a vibrant circle of like-minded individuals who celebrate BDSM as a spiritual path. Share experiences, insights, and perhaps a knowing smile with those on a similar quest.


Musical Enhancements: Be swept away by sounds that stir the soul. Each week features a different musical genre to set the mood and guide your exploration.


Knowledgeable Staff: Our team is here to ensure a safe, inclusive, and nurturing environment where you can let go and immerse yourself completely.


Prepare to indulge your senses and connect with your inner self, exploring the divine through playful encounters and shared moments.


Details:

  • Location: The Sanctuary of East Harlem
  • Time: Every Friday from 8 PM to 1 AM
  • Contribution: $30 at the door (Cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle or PayPal) Please bring a snack or beverage to contribute to our communal snack table. Your offerings help sustain the evening’s energy and camaraderie.


Schedule:
  • Doors open at 8pm
  • Socializing from 8pm - 9:30pm
  • At 9:30, communication of the rules and the plan for the rest of the evening
  • 10pm - 11pm Impact play that is specifically created for the musical genre of the evening. The collective participant experience of engaging in impact play set to music creates an incredibly exciting environment that carries through the rest of the evening
  • 11pm - 1am the space is open for almost any style or modality of play. Feel free to bring your toys and your gear and we will happily set up a space for your play.

Our parties are a celebration of the spiritual and physical, a place to express your authentic self and embrace the magic of BDSM. Come ready to create memories and connections that will make you want to join us again, soon!