Join us for this groundbreaking and life-changing program. Offered at various days and times throughout the year. Check the event calendar for upcoming programs. Go to the event calendar, click on the group you would like to join - A $200 deposit secures your spot!
What to Expect
People come to us when they feel disconnected from their desires, unsure how to integrate them into their lives meaningfully. They struggle with understanding power dynamics, managing relationships' energetic flows, and lack the tools for effective communication, discernment, and self-advocacy. This disconnection can leave them feeling isolated and unfulfilled in their personal and partner connections.
Why is this a problem? When these aspects of our lives are out of balance, it can lead to feelings of loneliness, miscommunication, and missed opportunities for deeper connections. Without proper guidance, many find it challenging to navigate the complexities of kink relationships healthily and constructively.
What is the solution we offer? Our 6-Week Online Mentorship Program provides a structured and supportive environment for elevating through the kink journey. Through weekly immersive sessions, participants engage in introspection, self-value exercises, learning to connect with oneself and others, vetting, negotiation, and self-advocacy, equipped with tools and insights to enhance personal growth and relationship skills.
What will you achieve?
By joining our 6-week mentorship program, you will gain deep self-awareness and valuable insights into your true desires, laying a solid foundation for personal growth. You'll learn to see your worth clearly, enabling you to make informed choices about the relationships you pursue. Acquire critical vetting skills to assess potential connections carefully and develop the ability to discern hidden qualities in others. Emerge from the program with increased self-advocacy, empowering you to confidently build and sustain the meaningful connections you desire. This journey equips you with the tools and mindset to become the conscious, empowered partner you’ve always wanted to be.
"I decided to join the mentorship program because opportunities to learn from accomplished teachers are rare, and I craved being part of a community. There's only so much one can understand alone, and I knew that gaining the perspective and wisdom of more knowledgeable people would greatly enhance my understanding of BDSM, kink, and myself as a
person." Malik, 47, New York City
"I didn't come into the program with a specific issue; rather, I wanted to build upon what I had already learned and continue my journey of growth. The program has allowed me to transfer the skills I’ve acquired in BDSM into wider aspects of my life. I’ve made significant progress in developing my communication techniques, which has enabled me to build deeper and more rewarding connections. The structured exploration has deepened my understanding of relationships and BDSM." Tom, 67, White Plains, NY
"I joined the mentorship program because I deeply trust Cat and Joshua, and knew I needed to learn more about BDSM and leather. After hearing them speak about it, I was certain this was something I needed. They make me feel safe, and the people they engage with make me feel safe too. I wanted to address a knowledge gap and find my place in BDSM and leather, seeking genuine connection rather than random intimacy. Walking into the program, I aimed to gain self-knowledge and confidence, but I also found a much-needed connection that I didn’t know I was missing. This program has taught me about self-knowledge, confidence, and people-pleasing, and helped me tackle difficult questions in a supportive environment." Madeline, 24, Chicago
Week 1: Introspection and Self-Awareness
- Come to know yourself at a whole new level. Through a deep dive into a series of curated questions, you connect with yourself, and then share that knowledge with others who are also seeking a broader sense of self.
Week 2: Self-Value and Connection
- Each week's homework takes you further and deeper. This week, we experience what it is like to share the truth of our worth with others. Being vulnerable with others in a judgment-free environment validates us in a way that is rare and empowering.
Week 3: Relationship with Self and Others
- By taking the time to understand our worth, we can base our relationships and relationship choices on our values - leaving behind the idea that we must be worthy of others, instead looking to see if others are worthy of us.
Week 4: Vetting
- Hone your ability to choose partners wisely, guided by intuition and clarity, based on the firm understanding of who we are and what we are seeking.
Week 5: Discernment
- Practice the ability to distinguish others' values and character, as well as the ability to uncover hidden qualities in a way that improves the quality of the connections you make with others.
Week 6: Connection and Communication
- Embrace your self-worth and emerge empowered to seek—and deserve—the connections you've dreamed of.
Cost of the program: $1200. A $200 deposit will hold your spot. There is a $200 discount if the amount is paid by the start day/time of your cohort, for a total of $1000. Otherwise, the balance (total of $1200) can be paid over the first 2 weeks of the program, final payment is due by the start of week 3.
This program is an invitation to transform your understanding of intimacy, advocate fiercely for your desires, and cultivate authentic, lasting connections.
Register today to secure your spot in this life-changing adventure and become the partner you've always aspired to be!
