My whole purpose is to help people self-actualize. I’ve walked my own journey of identity for as long as I can remember. And in my life’s journey adversity, stress, anger, sadness, all came in many different forms. What I want to do with my work is take the experience of trying to find myself, my struggles with self-acceptance, and bring it to others.
I want to help clear paths so people can ask themselves these questions and we can talk through it, so that people can find authenticity in expression and existence. I want people to be able to sit in their truth not only in BDSM, but in their entire life.
What has it meant to accept my own struggles with resentment of the color of my skin, my stress around expression? What does it mean to find peace within myself? What does it mean to work through my relationships and find peace in that, as well as finding peace spiritually and religiously? When it comes to submission and folks who want to pursue the BDSM route to self-actualization, I help curate and guide them through their journey of introspection… What’s the word there? I don’t know it, but in trying to discover themselves. So I provide guidance there.
I also teach to help folks empower themselves with one-on-one training, couples training and group training. My purpose in all of this work is to witness other people’s experiences in life, to capture them in my own memory and to use all this knowledge to help others find peace within themselves. In witnessing, I sometimes photograph it. Those are options for our time spent together in various forms of personal growth and spiritual development, through the lens of BDSM.
Let me empower you through experience and introspection. Let me help you find the power of your voice. Let’s find a way to get your soul to the surface. Let’s remove the blockages. Let’s learn how to build community. Let me help you. Healing through the lens of BDSM, the space we hold is sacred. The feelings and the emotions run deep and upon reflection of the lives we live, to stand in a judgment-free zone in a space that is empowering in truth. That’s what I get to create. That’s what I create for you.
You will connect all parts of yourself and acknowledge your wide range of personality. Here are the rules as I see them: Don’t be a dick. Don’t be a pussy. Don’t be an asshole and don’t fuck yourself. And don’t be a dick means to show up in the best version of yourself, the most giving, the most mindful, the most present, the most selfless. Just don’t bring discourse through ego. Be a good human being. Intention is everything. Don’t be a pussy. Stop saying no. Say yes, grab those opportunities and take them.
Embrace it, run, let go, let loose. Don’t be an asshole. Don’t be the fucking sour, negative guy, the guy that shits all over everything. Don’t be the negative person. Arrogance is the dick, negativity is the asshole. Don’t fuck yourself. Don’t do dumb shit. Don’t be that person. Think about your actions and ask yourself, am I doing what’s right? I guess in those instances is when you fuck yourself.