Upcoming Events

PBK: Discussion and Skill Building
September 28, 2022, 8:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Smittens’ Lair
206 W 23rd Street
4th floor
New York, New York 10001
We will be learning about Fisting this month!

Wednesday, September 14 and September 28, 2022 from 8pm – 10pm (Every 2nd and 4th Wednesday of the Month)

This evening starts with a social hosted by SimplySmitten(https://fetlife.com/users/7120294)at Jake’s Saloon [http://www.jakessaloonnyc.com/] from 7-9pm.

Come socialize and connect with other members of our local community. This is a great munch for anyone on their kink/BDSM/ life journey!!

During this social, starting at 8pm, folks interested in hands-on skill building will move upstairs to:

People Before Kink: Discussion and Skill Building

@Smitten’s Lair

206 W 26th Street, 4th Floor

New York, NY 10011

8pm – 10pm

The first 30 min of these gatherings will be an interactive discussion in order to build language around technical practice.

During this unique approach, you will learn a very basic technical aspect of the modality. What we focus on during the class is how we connect with each other through that particular form of play. Fisting is one of the most intimate forms of play. We are fortunate to have two very experienced and generous bottoms to allow students to have hands-on experience (literally). Also let us know if you are interested in learning how to bottom for fisting.

Here are some things to keep in mind:

The play we engage in and the tools we use elicit certain emotions & responses from our partners.

What do we want our partner to experience?

How do they want it to feel?

What conversations get us where we want to go?

What level of intensity do we each want to experience?

What would we enjoy or not enjoy?

To understand where our partner wants to go is essential in our engagements. These are journeys we take together. To top and to bottom are gifts we give ourselves and each other in understanding the process of connection and energy exchange.

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