PBK: An Introspective Spiritual Intensive
Have you said to yourself:
I wish I knew how to get started?
I don’t feel skilled or experienced enough to come out to events?
How can I find and build community?
People come to us when they find themselves “stuck.” People are wanting more out of their life, their work, or their relationships but they can’t seem to get out of their own head. Through a unique and proven process, people recognize their strengths, reconcile their shortcomings, and feel fantastic about, not only today, but, more importantly, tomorrow. It allows them to feel ready to come out, find other like-minded folks and begin the meaningful journeys they have always longed for
Who is this for?: This intensive is for anyone interested in a hands-on experience that will open you up to your full potential, both as an individual and as part of a community,
What problems do we solve?
Connecting genuinely with others
How to be vulnerable and not get hurt
How to engage in kink without fear
How do we solve them?
Guiding you through meaningful introspection
Bringing together folks who commit to this process for themselves
Peeling away the mystery of kink and bdsm to make it accessible
What does this program promise you? A life-changing experience. You will:
- Gain Confidence:
Lose the distorting lenses of shame and isolation
Ask for what you want
Become able to say yes and no
- Make Connections:
See that others have similar thoughts and feelings
You will be able to see and been seen, hear and be heard
Be vulnerable and compassionate with yourself and others
- Create Community:
You will show up authentically and others will do the same
You will experience genuine connection
The connections you make will potentially last a lifetime
Our process revolves around 5 key points. We use the acronym ICAVS to make it easy to remember:
Introspection – This is an opportunity to dive deeper into yourself. This process will cut right into the middle of who you are.Introspection at this level empowers you, through a unique process of self-awareness. Before the workshop, you will receive a package that walks you through a path of introspection. It will help you find specific and valuable information about yourself. It will also provide you with words to articulate your thoughts and feelings, something we are generally not taught. Self-knowledge is the foundation of our program.
Container – Containers create safe spaces to be with yourself and others. People experience being seen and heard as well seeing and listening. These are skills that change people’s lives
Actualization – As we dive deeper into who we really are, we find we have permission to remove all the obstacles that hold us back. This process is a space to discover and become your true, authentic self.
Vulnerability – Deeply meaningful connections require vulnerability. The magic of this intensive comes from those who attend. People feel safe, so can be who they are and share themselves with others in a new way.
Safety – This is a safe and educational environment for this immersive experience. In this judgment-free space, folks create safety for themselves and others, both for the intensive and for their lives moving forward.
This program has everything you need to get you to the root of your identity, as you are today. And it all happens in an environment of vulnerability, safety and trust. The entire process is free of judgment and agenda. This allows you to leave the workshop with valuable skills you will have practiced, freeing you to integrate them in all areas of your life.
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|5:30pm Check In|
|6:00pm – 7:00pm Opening Circle|
|7:00pm – 10:pm BDSM Tasting|
|10:00am – 10:30am Coffee/snacks|
|10:30am – 1:15pm – People Before Kink|
|1:15pm – 2:15pm Lunch|
|2:15pm – 3:45pm – Impact Play w/Aftercare|
|3:45pm – 5:15pm – Shared Experience|
|5:15pm – 6:15pm Dinner|
|6:15pm – 10:00pm Hands-on Shared Experience w/Pick up Play|
|10:00am – 11:00 – KinkAbilities|
|11:00am – 12:00pm – Spanking|
|12:00pm – 1:15pm – Littles Class|
|1:15pm – 2:15pm Lunch|
|2:15pm – 3:45pm – Rope|
|3:45pm – 5:15pm – Improv and Role Play|
|5:15pm – 6:15pm Continuing Circle|
|6:15pm – 7:30pm Closing Social Hour|
Joshua, known as Master Joshua in the BDSM/Leather community, is a counselor, educator, event promoter and host, and Professional Dominant. In one-on-one sessions, Joshua guides their clients towards self-acceptance, empowering them to gain control of and become active participants in their own lives. Drawing upon personal, unique, and hard-earned transformative experiences, they have developed a personalized method of NTSB (Non Traditional Sexual Behavior) counseling, which is specifically geared owards catalyzing self-actualization. Over the past 12+ years, this system has helped hundreds rid themselves of shame, see and embrace their sexual identity, and live richer, better more materialized lives.
Cat has been in the kink community for 25+ years, developing a deep understanding of what it means to be on a kink journey. Cat is a counselor, educator, event promoter and organizer, and minister-in- training. In addition to education within the BDSM community, she offers one-on-one counseling to help people gain perspective and clarity around a variety of life stressors. Her methods allow people to get “unstuck” and reprioritize life goals. She has 20+ years of grief, trauma and recovery counseling experience, along with a profound understanding of 12 step principles and other techniques for creating positive change. Cat assists clients with the understanding that our relationship with Spirit/Divine/Universe is what ultimately heals all things.
Shveta is a leather lifestylist and seasoned member of the kink community. She has been active over the past 8 years co-hosting social events, leading discussion groups, acting as a mentor, and providing kink education. She has served to facilitate safer events as a member of a consent response team and as a dungeon monitor. As a therapist, Shway has worked extensively with those who experience acute psychological distress and struggle with emotion regulation. She approaches this through a sex-positive, person-centered, trauma-informed lens. She has more than a decade of experience helping her clients develop a better understanding of themselves and their goals while facilitating improved coping, insight and personal growth. She has also worked specifically with minority groups (LGBTQ+, polyamorous, kinky, POC) in providing culturally competent care.
Mary has been a member of the BDSM lifestyle for a handful of years, more actively in the recent year in her Master/slave dynamic. As a lifestylist and slave, she saw a need for community around disability and kink which sparked her founding Kink Abilities. Over the course of her journey, she has become a member of the Kink Collective family who helps assist in organizing events and educating on various topics. Her goal is to provide every member in the community a safe environment to freely experience self-exploration and growth.
Previous attendants say:
This experience was life changing! This intensive is very well designed to make you discover parts of yourself you didn’t know existed. The collective is very knowledgeable and incredibly approachable. I can’t wait to further explore the BDSM aspect of my life and be a part of the next generation. Thank you so much for this opportunity! – T.W.
I think I came into this with the idea we’d be exploring kink and kink in relation to ourselves and it would be kind of so much play. And it was, but it was also so much more than that! Just from the beginning, connecting in the circle and then getting into topics that I don’t even talk about with my therapist left me so raw but so light that it could’ve been a journey all on its own for two days. But then it was like “but wait! There’s more!” And that more was also mind blowing. I loved the teaching style that you all have to make something that could be scary so much fun while also pushing me out of my comfort zone the few times that I tried to retreat back to it. I can’t wait for the next intensive and other events! – Earlene
Transformative and transcending are two words that come to mind when I think of my experience at pbk. Everything felt safe and it was safe because the container created made it so. I would recommend this to every one of my friends and families. – Trish
This is the fourth PBK intensive I’ve experienced with my partner. We have found PBK events to be welcoming, safe spaces for both of us to explore and grow. Every time I attend, I learn something new about myself and my partner – and I believe the same is true for him. Because so much emphasis is placed on the personal understanding and growth of the participants, each intensive is always a little different. This particular weekend helped open me up to the playful side of kink and appreciate more clearly the connections between my creative spirit, my sexuality and my attractions to – and past fears about – kink. I’ve lived much of my life clinging to rules and principles because I’ve told myself they’ll keep me safe. Over time, the PBK programs and philosophy have helped me see that the only true safety lies in learning to hear and trust the truth that lives inside me. This weekend has helped me take another step on that journey. – David
Who: Anyone interested in learning more about themselves and others through the lens of BDSM.
Where: LGBT Community Center 208 W 13th Street, New York, NY 10014 Room 301
When: November 11 – 13, 2022
Why: To gain the tools and experience allowing you to know yourself and connect with others.
What: A series of educational classes, hands-on workshops and curated events. The approach is very different from typical 101 classes. Technical classes are hands-on and are facilitated within philosophical and spiritual frameworks. Roundtable discussions include all the participants in the conversation, and are based around topics that are essential for development and growth
How: Sign up here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/367884812377
- Where do I sign up?
Upon payment you’ll be emailed an intake form for follow up, as well as detailed information about classes and instructors.
- What can I expect when attending?
An immersive experience providing structure for meaningful conversations, applicable for both new acquaintances and existing relationships. You will experience community support while you are learning. It is our goal to equip you with tools to build a meaningful kink lifestyle, and your life’s journey.
- Is there any cost for the program?
$195 includes the entire weekend, exclusive of lodging
- What do I need to bring with me when attending?
During the day, you will be attending various classes. A notebook and pen are recommended to keep track of what you will be learning.
- Is there a dress code?
During the day, dress for comfort. For the evening events, the suggestion is “Dress in what makes you feel strong, beautiful and confident !!”.
- Can I volunteer to help defray the cost of attendance?
We have a scholarship program. It is steeped in the concept of service and recipients will be given a list of responsibilities. This experience allows you to attend the event if cost is an issue, and requires you to return that energy by being of service to the event. It is a way of allowing you to have “skin in the game” by keeping the flow of energy balanced
- Who is the Kink-Collective?
For more information on the Kink-Collective please visit https://kinkcollective.net/
- Is participation mandatory?
No, participation isn’t mandatory. What we do encourage is going into this intensive with an open mind, void of labels and roles, with the intention of learning to create safe containers and connection without intention. We hope you will actively participate in the classes and workshops. During the evening events there is absolutely no expectation for you to do anything, except be respectful, and watch, listen and learn.
- What is the age range of participants?
Ages range from 21- 80! Age is less important than open-mindedness, a desire to play and genuinely connect with others. However, you must be 21 to attend the workshop.
- Do I need to bring toys?
No. However, we do encourage you to bring toys if you have them. This is a great time to learn about your toys if they’re new for you. For the experienced folks, it’s a great time to share stories about your equipment when asked !!
See link below to register. Limited scholarships are available. Email email@example.com for details